thank you all for the reply i really do hope she will mellow out (3 more years) when she reach adulthood but i have watched the video and all but it seems my snake react differently. She will nip even with the arm that handles her but i never hear her hiss or puff up its just a nip thats all. once she started licking and spinning around my arm (thought she relaxed a little) she nipped me again but sometimes she just falls asleep in my arm and constricting very loosely (dunno why) she even stick to my hand even when i put my hand in front of her hide and enclosure (yeah just stays there) even when the temps in her cage are much warmer than my cold hands. weird girl really