Oh, no hun...
I wasn't at all saying ALL replies were wrong. In fact there are a few I thanked for their information they provided. A new way to look at things, and so on. If you note, one person literally said almost the same exact stuff as Deborah did, but without deragatory stuff, and I responded with a thank you and such.
A fault with me that exists with a lot of people: I respond better with patience and kindness. I respond to bluntness in kind.