fair enough, and I agree for the most part. However I just get annoyed by people telling me what I can or can not do with MY animal, and if I buy an animal it's MINE. Of course you also have the right not to sell it to me, but if you want to maintain control over what happens to it, then why are you selling it in the first place?
(and when I say 'you' I don't mean you in particular, 'you' meaning the seller)