Why do you always take these things personally? The blanket statement about what a bad idea cohabitation is is very obviously not an attack on your methods. You can cohab peacefully and walk away from these conversations without turning it into a crusade. There are no snake police who are going to come harass you for your housing situation. The general idea is that average joe can't/shouldn't cohabitate, and you yourself agree with this statement, and that's exactly what every post I've seen you get offended by boiled down to, but you still find reason to make it about yourself.