You deal with it by not imposing YOUR passion on others.
I am married to someone who was scared of snakes, he is now ok with the idea but he will not touch them, or go in the snake room....he dislike rats even more.
I breed both snakes and rats and so long he does not have to deal with any of it he is fine.
Because someone has a hobby it does not mean the other person should have the same hobby.
If one day she comes around them fine but if she does not it's ok too.
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