A BF / GF who is in it for themselves will always find a way to subvert your progress.
Heck's Bells...forget what I said about your BF subverting your dreams. After reading some of the responses to this thread, I now realize you don't need a BF for that...plenty of folks around here are willing to do it instead
Thomas "Slim" Whitman
Never Met A Ball Python I Didn't Like