For a gene to be classified as dominant the homozygous form (or "super" ) must have an identical appearance to the heterozygous form. Thats literally the definition of a dominant gene. All genes have homozygous forms. We classify genes as dominant, co dominant, incomplete dominant, or recessive by looking at the appearance of the normal, heterozygous, and homozygous forms.
Your thoughts about taking homozygous spiders as a sunk cost and doing the pairing anyway is 100% spot on. If the homozygous form is lethal you will see fewer hatchlings total and a higher ratio of spiders to normals then expected. There are some breeders of the jag mutation in carpet pythons that do exactly this, because they feel normals are really undesirable, and homozygous jags are lethal.
Its funny because I have the exact opposite feeling about this based on similar reasoning. If the homozygous spider was a perfectly healthy, normal animal, then why hasnt one ever shown up after all this time? If its possible to produce as a viable healthy animal surely someone would have shown evidence that it exists.
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