To me, its a difficult call, and agreed everyones situation is different. Me n hubby (as he already posted lol) met on here, and both love snakes. However, we both have a hard time saying 'yes'. And currently, im the only one working, so i think itd be very unfair if he went out and got some new snakes while im struggling to pay the bills. So we currently are at a point where if we both want something new, we gotta sell one we have first.
In your situation, id say as long as your bills are being paid, its your own spending money, and you are more than able to care for one new snake, i dont see what the problem is. If your man says stuff like "its my place", or "my rules", or some such other thing, then i would say the issue has nothin to do with snakes, if you know what i mean. Good luck, and hopefully it works out.
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