If you are feeding her in a separate enclosure, then you are unintentionally conditioning her to associate leaving the cage with feeding time. The simple fix is just to feed within the enclosure. Many would agree that you are also handling her a bit too much, I would recommend no more frequent than handling every other day...I prefer about 2-3 times a week on my specimens, I will admit though I have a chondro that seems to thoroughly enjoy being out and about, but for most specimens it is at least a bit stressful and should be done in moderation. What is your husbandry like? Temps? Cage furniture? Etc... ?