The first one sounds more like a female that you are squeezing the scent glands of; what are you popping that makes you think it's a boy?

The second one sounds like she just needs to shed again. You could try adjusting her hiding places to be heavier and/or slightly smaller, so she feels safer and stops soaking so much in her water bowl.

Pics would help too

Neither of them sound like they have serious health issues, if that makes ya feel better.

-Jen