So, are my requirements too hard/high?

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I mean don't get me wrong I can play for hours but it's different because I don't enjoy playing normally so it's purely out of boredom now that I play. I'd much rather be out hanging with somebody or even helping my friends with their snakes but they don't need help. Then all my friends are basically married and have kids so I can't really impose on their life. I'm sure I could go to the bar or a club and meet somebody, but I don't want to meet somebody there because it's not something I enjoy doing.

Same here! Im tired of the bar scene! Tried it and seems thats all they wanted to do! I just work and stay home, boring life, but beats going to the bars for me!