So, are my requirements too hard/high?

[Badgemash]

I hate to use a cliche, but relationships really are about compromise. I had never once even thought about buying a gun, but hubby likes them and it makes shopping for presents really easy (you can never have too many he says ). And despite my initial aversion to firearms, I love antiques, so he got me on board with a WWI Enfield (I fired it once, it hurt, so I just look at it and admire the patina on the stock), and now I love trap shooting. He'd never had dogs before, and despite claiming they're expensive and obnoxious, when he's away he talks to "his little boy" on Skype (and yes the dog sits and stares back at him, super cute).

The point is this, if you really care for someone you want them to be happy, even when you don't understand why certain things work for them. And if someone really cares for you, they'll want you to be happy too. So maybe your points are too specific at this point in time, but a girl who cares for you will make an effort to understand your hobbies, and if your lucky she'll eventually like them too.