So, are my requirements too hard/high?

[Neal]

I don't think you are asking for too much, you just know what you like! Like others have said... you usually find somebody when you are not looking or even thinking about it.

Annnnnnnnnd just because I am am nosy... what kind of games do you play?

I play battlefield 3 on the PC. I prefer realistic games but I've played a broad genre of games. I like zombie games too, just anything that has good graphics really. I mostly play bf3 though, at least until bf4 comes out then all my friends leave and the game goes dead. Then it'll probably be Titanfall, maybe.

I just have no intentions on getting rid of my snakes ever, so that's something that is non-negotiable, however I can spend less time gaming if I found something else to occupy my time but that would come with due time.

I enjoy doing a ton of other things and I'm open to somebody not liking the stuff I like, just as long as they don't try to tell me to get rid of it or stop doing it, that's what I should of originally stated as I worded it a bit wrong.