PS, basically every state allows underage drinking with parental consent
from http://www.teendrinkinglaw.vic.gov.a...ts/the_law.phpAnyone who plans to supply alcohol to a minor in their home will need to get permission from the young person's parent or legal guardian.
Permission can be given verbally or in writing - but the person who will supply the alcohol needs to be very confident that they have the permission they need from the parent responsible. This is because if there is a question about whether permission had been given, the person who supplied the alcohol will need to prove that they had permission.
And even if you have permission from parents to supply alcohol, it's important to remember that if you don't serve alcohol responsibly, you may be breaking other laws and breaching your duty of care.
and here's the long list of what exactly is or isn't legal, pretty much anything with consent in 43 states
http://drinkingage.procon.org/view.r...ourceID=002591