Quote Originally Posted by Mike41793 View Post
I dont think its important for a significant other to share the same interests as you but they should be able to at least support you. For example: i hate horses; however, if i liked a chick that liked horses id be willing to support her hobby of riding them or uh... whatever else you do with the stupid things. It's part of a mutual respect you have to have for your partner. She sounds really selfish and kind of immature; hanging up the phone if you bring up a topic she doesnt like. Really? That's so childish. I would try and sit down and have a serious talk with her. If that doesnt work then maybe you need to think about taking a break.
I was secretly wondering if her semi-serious threat to make me single was her projecting. :/ But I don't really know what to make of it. I would love to talk if she would. I will keep trying, but I don't think I'm going to sacrifice my "end of finals/Christmas" present to myself because of that tantrum though. Especially when I'm giving up one of my snakes only to replace it with another. I wouldn't be giving him up if I weren't getting the male to pair with my female in a few years. And with regard to that, what is she going to say when 30+ baby boas pop out of my Monster Tail? She knows I want to breed, and has never once expressed an aversion to that. But somehow I think she would if she thought about it. Regardless, I think I will still get my baby boa. I won't sacrifice my own happiness to accommodate someone who won't even talk to me. I told her to give me a logical reason...she didn't have one. Therefore, I can not in good faith support her argument.