I'm nothing but bad luck

[BrandiR]

I can't find anyone I trust enough and that can tolerate my snakes enough to come even give them water......literally my ex was the only one who touched them more than with just a finger and longer than just a second lol there was one friend who would have until she found out that my large female gave me one heck of a tag now she doesn't trust any of them because that female is the one that was the most lovable with everyone..and every night almost these ghosts play with my hair....the only time I have really talked to them was more yelling at them to go to sleep than really talking lol but they have said hello to my mother and have also called out mommy to her 3 times in one night then crawled up into bed with her tomorrow I am going to go look for an apartment because this house is worse than the ex-funeral home I lived in before.....and awesome as I type this they are tapping on the walls....this is too much for me I really can't live here. My grandparents are moving out of their house because they are being shoved down the stairs, my grandfather was stabbed in the ear by a radio antenna, he also was pushed over when he was bending over, my grandma has people yelling into her hearing aid, and padlock doors have been thrown open...At their house last night my cousin had her remote thrown across the room at her cat. I guess I'm going to leave for a walk because I can't stand this craziness.

I'm not being a jerk, I'm just curious- Are all of your relatives living in "haunted" houses?

[python_addict]

I'm not being a jerk, I'm just curious- Are all of your relatives living in "haunted" houses?

Just my house well my parents house really I had to move in only temperarily, and both sets of grandparents, the grandparents on my adoptive side are living in what used to be a funeral home, no idea why they thought that would be a good choice. And the grandparents on my biological side are living in an extremely old house that is off the main street of our tiny town so it is one of the last original houses in town but the activity there is way out of control.
Oh and I found out my mother is worried about my grandparents so she offered to swap houses, so I really have to find another place for myself before she does that.

[ballpythonluvr]

Wow, all this ghost activity is just crazy! I don't think I could live like that either. I have always wanted to encounter a ghost but I think I have changed my mind after reading all of that. If I were you, I would be looking for another place to live also.

[python_addict]

Thought my debit card was just lost for the past week....well got a statement from the bank saying I have had 6 atm transactions when I haven't had my freaking card now I owe them hundreds and they stopped the account from being used but are still billing it $6 every day til I pay them all of what is owed..........?!

[ChrisS]

Thought my debit card was just lost for the past week....well got a statement from the bank saying I have had 6 atm transactions when I haven't had my freaking card now I owe them hundreds and they stopped the account from being used but are still billing it $6 every day til I pay them all of what is owed..........?!

File a police report as a stolen card.

[python_addict]

File a police report as a stolen card.

That's the thing I'm not sure who it was right now. My cousin stole my grandparents card and used it and if she stole mine I can't do that to her...I have to talk to her about it tomorrow but if she says she doesn't have it then I'm telling her I'm filing a report and if it she does have it hopefully that will scare her into confessing....I really really really wish I didn't have to live at this moment..

[OsirisRa32]

I lived in a haunted house as a child for 2 years....not a fun experience....I would suggest investigating local or state paranormal societies that might be able to help you out in that one respect.

Just remember to take one thing at a time and take a few deep breaths occasionally. Sorry to hear about the pet/snake situation...I m a new BP owner myself but my roommate leaves hers alone for a few days at a time and hes just fine.

It helps me when I am feeling crazy and overwhelmed to listen to some music ( i couldnt live without music!!) and to make a list of things and prioritize them based on importance but also how long each issue will take to deal with...or write out a map of steps to deal with some of the big stuff...and like yoda said "do or do not..there is no try"...just confront the BS head on!

Good luck!! It will all work out in the end...

[OsirisRa32]

That's the thing I'm not sure who it was right now. My cousin stole my grandparents card and used it and if she stole mine I can't do that to her...I have to talk to her about it tomorrow but if she says she doesn't have it then I'm telling her I'm filing a report and if it she does have it hopefully that will scare her into confessing....I really really really wish I didn't have to live at this moment..

You need to do that to her especially if she has a history of this behavior...My mom and I just got through dealing with this with my brother...You can't provide safe haven for family members...they need to hit rock bottom to learn and by not reporting her illegal actions you are part of the problem and helping her codependent behavior.


Also call your bank and report it as stolen and that the charges are fraudulent ones...they should block the card, investigate and be sure to be honest and explain the situation to them. I have dealt with similar issues with both banks ive belonged to over the years. (Bank of America and M&T Bank)

[lovepig78]

I hope you find a job soon and you problems go away....


Next time use paragraphs.... That wall of text was really hard to read, but maybe it's my dyslexia acting up cuz it's late and I'm tired lol

[python_addict]

I hope you find a job soon and you problems go away....


Next time use paragraphs.... That wall of text was really hard to read, but maybe it's my dyslexia acting up cuz it's late and I'm tired lol

Yeah I'm sorry I tend to do that, my mind was just going to fast for me to even really pay attention to what I was doing. To be honest I'm surprised my fingers kept up. Just stressed and needed to rant..