Oh, to add to my post, my step father's sister (so my step aunt?) Said she would never be coming to my house again when she found out. Said I was an idiot and they were going to get out and kill my kids.
Needless to say, I wasnt very upset to know that she wouldn't be coming to my house anymore. My mother asked if she could borrow one of my snakes so that she wouldn't come to her house either. Heh.