This comment here worries me. If you are only not leaving because you tied the knot, then I believe that you should leave immediately. I said on multiple occasions that I would have left my wife were in not for us having kids together, and in the end we split anyway. If you are in a position where you would leave based solely on that person, but other circumstances are making you stay (kids, marriage, etc.), then forget about the other circumstances and leave. Not telling you to leave, just trying to give some insight.