Sometimes I hate him!

[BrandiR]

If you haven't eaten in 3 days, what are you feeding HIM? He probably needs the weed to be able to stomach the ketchup and crackers you are forcing him scavenge for by not cooking regular meals.

She's his wife, not his mother.
And it's already been stated that he eats at the restaurant he works at. If you're going to respond with nonsense, at least read through the whole thing and try to come up with something that hasn't already been addressed.

[Daybreaker]

If you haven't eaten in 3 days, what are you feeding HIM?

A grown man can feed himself She's not his maid and chef: he can go get his own dinner if he needs to (even without working at a restaurant).

OP: I hope you figure out what you want to do and that it works out for you.

[PorcelainxDoll]

If you haven't eaten in 3 days, what are you feeding HIM? He probably needs the weed to be able to stomach the ketchup and crackers you are forcing him scavenge for by not cooking regular meals.

Maybe you misread that he works at a resturaunt and gets FREE food. He has eaten everyday!
He gets pot because hes a DRUG ADDICT!



Thank you ladies for pointing that out to him... I think I decided I am.done since 40$ more has gone missing since I posted this... So much for him crying saying he loved and needed me... Ah oh well.
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[Norsejeff]

She's his wife, not his mother.
And it's already been stated that he eats at the restaurant he works at. If you're going to respond with nonsense, at least read through the whole thing and try to come up with something that hasn't already been addressed.

Doth mine eyes deceive me? Fair maiden, is thine presence forsooth? Lo! It has been ages betwixt mine and yours last endeavor! Verily! How fare thee, mine most honorable and noble damsel?

[lovepig78]

Well I found $40 more taken when I woke up.. Ya I think I am done.

So what you are saying is he took $40 from you... AND YOU LEFT THE MONEY IN THE SAME PLACE...

and then he took another $40? and you are surprised?

Why didn't you relocate the money to a safer place?

[PorcelainxDoll]

So what you are saying is he took $40 from you... AND YOU LEFT THE MONEY IN THE SAME PLACE...

and then he took another $40? and you are surprised?

Why didn't you relocate the money to a safer place?

Nope this time the money was in my wallet next to me while I was asleep. Before it was in a safe box...

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[Norsejeff]

On a serious note, OP, don't abandon the guy you loved enough to marry because he has a problem with drugs. Get him help and be by his side to support him on his road to recovery. Leaving the poor guy will only further his problem. If you care about him, help him into recovery. Trust me, I'm in recovery and having a loving support system is vital!

[Argentra]

He did it again?? Then yep, that as they say is that. He has proven that he doesn't mean what he says and will continue doing these things.

Well dear, personally I think you can do much better on your own. Remember that you can always ask for advise or even help from us here and we'll do our best. *HUGS* and Good luck with a fresh start!

Oh, and BTW - it is totally possible to live on $1200 a month alone. My partner and I BOTH live on that amount currently, and we live near Seattle WA.

[Norsejeff]

He did it again?? Then yep, that as they say is that. He has proven that he doesn't mean what he says and will continue doing these things.

Well dear, personally I think you can do much better on your own. Remember that you can always ask for advise or even help from us here and we'll do our best. *HUGS* and Good luck with a fresh start!

Just to offer a different perspective from someone who's in recovery, he might have very well meant to do as he promised and was being completely sincere.... Addicts are sick people. They have a disease. Its a disease no one but another addict can ever fully understand. Don't try to understand why he does the things he does, please try to just be tolerant of him.

Ask him to get help, find NA meetings to visit (PM me and I'll find them for you based on your location), support him and realize the road to recovery is a bumpy one. Everyone relapses and everyone will break their promise to not use for a time or two or three. Be his rock that stops his fall when this happens so he doesn't tumble all the way back to the bottom of the recovery mountain! All is not lost and if you still love him, please help him!


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[PorcelainxDoll]

We have been together 2 years, and hes been clean off meth since we got together. Everything was gping good till about 4 months ago.he started turning into this stranger. Im so scared hes back on meth. If he.is I domt know how to.handle it. Hes not the same guy I married. Not at all. I do love him and want to help, but at what point do I say enough.is enough?

The stress he is causing me is litterally hurting me. I jave fibromyalgia and im not supposed to have unnessecary stress, and thats all hes been causing me lately is stress, anger, and anguish.

Sigh!

You guys have no idea how much it means to me that you guys are letting me talk and vent to yall. I dont really have many friends, its nice to get.to talk to someone.

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