Quote Originally Posted by gsarchie View Post
I agree with Brandi as well however I feel that what Chris was saying was that she needs to leave to take care of herself (go to a shelter, go to a food kitchen, etc.), becuase if she doesn't eat then I would say her most basic need to be filled at the moment is simply survival. If after you leave he gets his act together and you believe that he has seriously reconsidered things then you could try again at that point, assuming it is something that you want to do.

Either way, I'm sure there is more going on here than meets the eye and this is only one incident in the last XX years of your lives together. I can only give a perspective on this one thing and it is obviously out of context.
^^
This is what I meant with my first post. And I will add that if he is an addict then he needs to seek help through NA or some other program. "Stealing" money for pot is the first step towards remission. And I still strongly suggest you go seek help, the Salvation Army or other food bank for a meal, and leave him. If you're only ranting to rant your situation will NOT get better. Please take care of yourself and don't worry about your husband.