Even after reading this longer than average rant i still dont think i have 1% of the full picture. It sounds like at the moment things suck but in all actual reality its just life. I get the fact u dont like him gone during hunting season but it also sounds like u might need that time to cool off (maybe thats how u have made it 20 years lol). Im a man with a troubled past, from 18-25 i had slept with over 50 chicks just to try and figure out where the hell is that perfect house wife everyone has been talking about. As i am getting older i know i am realizing its more all about accepting the crap ur delt and just try and enjoy life and finding someone with things in common. If u dont like his rc helicopters (as much as im sure he prob doesnt enjoy your snakes and the money u have spent on those) but it makes him happy then just accept it or toss them in the trash. Im assuming by ur statements he has never cheated on you but you have on him? I dont think all the rc helicopters in the world would make me forget about that but u bet ur ass if i felt like i needed to buy 4534 rc cars to get that off my mind and u said somthing id prob build the biggest transformer RC car and run you over with it, maybe backing up then going forward about 50 times
If her cheating on him really bothered him enough he would have left her. (If she did). Buying rc toys wont make that pain go away. If thats his problem then he needs to realize that.