Quote Originally Posted by Raptor View Post
Everyone here is speculating. We only know half of what is going on; we don't know his reasons at all. Considering this is a snake forum, of course the majority are going to say "ditch the boyfriend, keep the snakes". Snakes don't take a huge amount of time to care for unless the collection is massive. In which case, the boyfriend would have a legit complaint. Honestly? Instead of coming onto a forum and complain, she should sit down with him and ask his reasoning for why he thinks she spends too much time with her snakes.
Suppose she has. Suppose she has more than once.

Your advice is worth no more than most. At least with those of us who HAVE seen this happen to others we can tell her what actually happened when the snakes were given up or what happened when the option was put out there by a significant other.

Maybe you, since you keep harping on her talking to the guy, should let her be so she can make up her own mind.