You do realize that there's just a bit of difference between sitting on your ass playing games all day and keeping healthy happy animals, right? Because, if you don't, you're not adult enough to have an opinion in this thread.Originally Posted by dart
It's definitely easier to accept jobs, school and children over accepting a hobby. Just because you're passionate about something doesn't mean it's right to ignore someone you care about. I used to play video games and hockey a lot more than I spent time with my now fiance. Just because I was passionate about it, doesn't mean it was right. I realized my mistakes and changed. Now we are engaged and have a beautiful baby.
Before you go spouting advice that could potentially ruin a relationship, maybe you should think that there are always two sides to every story. Not to mention, how you feel towards your hobby and your relationships may not reflect how she feels towards hers. Saying things such as "get over it or take a hike" is ridiculously bull-headed and selfish. That's a response that doesn't even CONSIDER the other persons feelings.
If she doesn't engage in her hobby properly and in a timely fashion, her snakes die. If you don't play your game....nothing happens at all. Realize that and maybe you'll be qualified to participate. You're what? 25? Been around a long time, have ya? Talk to me in 20 years when you've been married for 15 and see if you still feel the same.
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