I DID IT, I thought I would just give her another week but randomly decided to pick her up, and she didn't even care, she was curled up in my hands for like 2 minutes then she was all over my arm she was calm and she actually tried to prevent me putting her back she kept trying to slither back up my arm. I'm so glad I did because she is so awesome I'm not sure why I was nervous now ! I just wish I could carry her around with me all day thanks for all your opinions!