Thank you for the link. I saw this site and he/she looks /just/ like that female however I was also watching a popping video on youtube and it looked just like a male on the videoso I was hoping for some expert eyes advice. I am thinking maybe he/she is too young to have developed sent glads like the female on the link and he/she has smaller hemipenes than I am used to seeing so it actually is male but from all the photos I have seen it looks female.