He is most definitely stressed by all those crazy events. Leave him alone as much as possible around cleaning the enclosure and mite treatments, and he will be just fine.
I know someone will suggest you get PAM for treating mites. PAM is ideal if you can get it. But if you do, follow the directions on the container to the letter.
That said, it sounds like you've had a rough day bud.I hope everything mellows out for you a bit now.