Being married vs. being single

[Gloryhound]

Actually, that came about due to the only guy that's ever showed interest in me only doing so that I'd help him pass a class. Once he did, he moved on to a different woman. Not quite the best way to end the first semester of college. He ignored me at college, ignored any attempt at me wanting to hang out, and was only interested in me being his personal secretary while he went and partied all weekend. No thanks.

Any attempts on my part to connect with males my own age results in being ignored or flat out lied to.

Now I know a lot of people that have had similar feelings, myself included for a time. I learned something very quickly though that helped me out.

"If you want things to change you need to start by changing yourself!"

People that constantly blame people of the opposite sex for not wanting to pay attention to them may have to make a change to get people of the opposite sex attracted to them.

A 25+ year old guy living in his parents basement, working as a pizza delivery man, about 100 lbs over weight, that spends all day playing X-box or Role play games with his buds, and driving a 1989 Toyota Tercel needs to start thinking about changing himself to become someone women will be interested in!

If you are constantly attracting the wrong people of the opposite sex, maybe you need to change where you hang out or how you come across. If a girl comes across frumpy and boring guys don't want to hang around with them cause it is like being neutered. If she comes across as easy, only the guys that are looking at tonight are going to be interested.

Might be a little blunt, but it is true!