How much did the psychic charge ya for that cold reading?
Tangential but I find it gross that 'psychics' prey on people going thru duress. Meh, they think they are helping people but its such a parasitic profession. Anyways...
I'm not a psychic but I think you'll find him. I recently found a itty bitty hatchling crested gecko in a gap and weird construction riddled old house.
Have you tried laying out plastic bags or other crinkling material and staying up late to listen? Good luck and don't beat yourself up so much.

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