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    I feel like I should mention something as well.
    I am a breeder who was also involved in the shipment.
    Normally I stay quiet because I'm a very timid sort of person.
    But I feel like I am obligated to tell
    about what I know since these people are already so courageous.
    When I was a new user on one of the mouse forums I got really excited and was talking to three other people about starting a club since there were none that showed locally.

    I started a thread which very quickly became hijacked by Casey, and soon after there was a new club I had nothing to do with.
    This did not bother me, I'm a fluid person and I am very hard to offend.
    It did make me aware of what she does.

    However, on this new forum for this new club she started
    there was one incident that I will never forget.

    A lovely person I had never talked to before was bullied.
    She was heavily pregnant and very sick so she decided to give up breeding mice.
    She and her husband were giving people the opportunity to adopt any before they were put down. She even offered to bring them to people who were attending a nearby show.
    She had at least 30 of her mice set aside for other people.
    Room she didn't have and put out effort she was not supposed to be using.
    Truth be told she was supposed to be -in bed- growing that baby.
    Casey heard she was bringing mice to the hotel that she was also staying at.
    And together with a few other people, she essentially made it impossible for her to
    A)go to the show
    B)Rehome any of the mice and
    C) she isolated her.

    I was the only one who stood up for that girl after they started mobbing her.
    The thread was taken down and all evidence was cleared and she was booted off the site.
    I spent a entire afternoon on the phone with this girl who was so stressed out from the way she was treated that she was even sicker than when she decided to give up the mice.
    I find that downright..there are no words for that kind of cruelty.

    That girl and what happened to her may not have anything to do with the shipment,
    but I think it's just another one of those things that needs to be mentioned.
    The ring leader in that was Casey.
    Under the guise of admin.
    That club is a sham.
    It's a lovely idea to have a club locally but I've come to the realization that it's doomed to fail under a leader who is so...mean.


    That being said I had thought that with such high stakes on our reputations,
    that everyone would behave like civilized people. Almost everyone did.
    I am utterly ashamed as one of the few who represent our fancy in the united states.
    What she did, and continues to do is seen overseas, and I do not appreciate the possibility of being looked at and judged by one person's behavior.
    It's taken something wonderful, and communal and turned it into something it never had to of been.


    And Stina, I don't think my PM went through before, but do you have any need of a black mouse?
    I have 6 and two tans if that helps at all. I know you didn't want to outcross yet, but the offer is there.

    I feel awful that this has happened and if there is anything I can do, you let me know.
    Last edited by Lycrisa; 05-26-2012 at 05:21 AM.

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