Female is a male!

[RobNJ]

These are the only two snakes I've popped but I tried a few times on the spider and can't get any hemipenes.

Could it be that you're not popping correctly? To have 2 snakes be the wrong sex on your first attempts at popping sounds like it could be a real possibility.

I'm pretty sure I see the white scent glans. I'm going to get someone more experienced to pop him/her though.