Xotik,
I'm an old man...I've seen a lot of life...I've made every relationship mistake you can think of and even invented a few of my own. I'd like to think I learned a few things along the journey.
Eight months may seem like a significant investment in a relationship, but try to keep things in perspective. Honestly eight months is a drop in time...Eight months is 2/3rds of a military deployment...Eight months isn't even a down payment on a long term relationship.
AND...he's already trying to change you because he's losing his passion for a hobby that you clearly want to have in your life for the long haul?
Never change who you are or what you want because of a Sig Other. Nothing good will ever come from it. Some people will tell you all about how relationships are a series of compromises...compromise is one thing, changing what you want to do in life is totally different.
You can not make someone else happy until you are happy with yourself. Sounds to me like you are not happy. Something to think about.
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