Sounds like he was concerned for the right reasons, and the two of you came up with a plan that works for you both. I think that his mom will see the light when she sees your willingness to let the animals go that aren't as "necessary" right now. If she doesn't, then it isn't her life or relationship, is it? And even though it stinks sometimes to feel the need to have an "escape" route, it's always better than feeling you have to stay in a situation because there's nowhere else to go - it allows you to make decisions for the right reasons, not fear. Good luck finishing school (you'll be amazed what that will do for your stress levels), take care of yourself, and we'll look forward to hearing from you when you have time to post.