Twenty years old and I still can't talk to girls....fml

[Skittles1101]

Im not able to read through all the pages, but i do not envy you being in Knox and not being able to pick-up chicks.

My advice is to not try so hard, you need to crash to learn the art and remember that nice guys don't finish first

That's not true! I went from a horrible marriage right into a toxic relationship and was tied down to -ahem- jerks (understatement) for longer than they deserved. My boyfriend wanted to date me for so long, and he was obnoxious about it! I kept him in the friend zone and started dating. As each one crashed and burned I realized that I belong with him. And, he's a nice guy, usually

There is a girl in my Psychology class that makes my heart race every time I see her. She's no super model but damn, when I see her all I can think is that she has got to be one of the most beautiful girls I have ever seen. I went to high school with her and have never worked up the nerve to talk to her. Spring break is March 5-10 but it is just so conveniently scheduled to give me eleven days off from school. Maybe i'll practice while we're out and talk to her when we come back

She may not be available then. If you want something, go for it. Procrastination won't make it any easier. Wouldn't you be kicking your own behind if you got back from break, finally got up the nerve to ask her out and she stops you by saying "I'm sorry I JUST started seeing someone." Don't let it get to that point. Women are intimidating, I wanted to high-five quite a few of the guys that have ever had the nerve to approach me. But don't wait! Keep it low key, ask her if she wants to grab coffee, or if you could take her out for dinner some night. It doesn't have to be this huge deal unless you make it that way. Confidence goes a long way, it took me a long time to learn that. You don't have to be Brad Pitt to get the girl you want