Ya cant go wrong with a male desert. They are like pastels in the fact that they make anything you put them to that much better. I wouldnt give 100 bucks for a female though. There are guys that have been yrying to breed them for years. If it could be done with auccess it would have been done already. The guys saying that all ya gotta do is lower temps or this or that or tickle their chins and yadda yadda yadda are just trying to save a dying market on female deserts.