You know there could be another side to the story. Do what you have to do for now and maybe she will come around and enjoy them at a later date.
I had snakes when I was a kid and after I got married wanted to get back into it. My wife said no way, we are not having snakes in this house. After quiet awhile one day she came home and said I got you an early Christmas present let's go get it. Well it was an adopted full grown BP and since then we have added 2 more and I am still shopping. She has gotten to where she will even handle them now and helps take care of them when I am gone...
Just saying you never know so dont give up all hope...