I know how you feel. My het pied female is exactly the same way. I got her feeding in the fall, and then she went on a winter fast, and has only eaten twice since coming out of it. The things we go through with them. It's feeding night here as well, so we'll see what happens.

Umm, I don't know if this will help, but my female will only take the rat if it's blow dried and really hot. It may help with yours?

Good luck with her. It's always the females