Thank you everyone for your opinions. I have to pay my vet a visit on Tuesday of next week anyway so i'm gonna take this snake to have him confirm what i been thinking since day 1 and what i saw yesterday evening. I originally was gonna take snake to a vet locally but i could not justify a $110.00 exam fee plus a $40.00 fee to have the snake sexed when it was not exhibiting any signs or symptoms of any kind of illness and all i wanted was confirmation of gender. Have found a new vet last week, his fees are more reasonable.
It will be a bummer if it turns out this was a male all along, such a beautiful ball python but i have more males than females my collection.