Shellie,
None of what myself or these people are saying is harassment. We all just want you to etter yourself but from what we've read on here your not ready for any animal/child. You need to have a sit down with yourself and think long and hard about what you want from life, your current financial situation and whether or not this situation will support snakes/children/whatever.
Personally, I want to see you achieve your goals. To do that, you need to face reality, which is that A) You need to finish High School. B) DO NOT marry at this early of an age. While for some people it works out, for the vast majority it will be a decision that they regret for the rest of their lives. Having a spouse early in life severely limits your life options. Please don't get offended by that. I have been dating my gf for 3 years now, since she was a sophomore in High School and I was a senior. She is currently pursuing a degree in Education and Art while I just took the LSAT and am heading to Law School. We both realize that marraige hindes more than helps us at this situation and were content with knowing we love each other. THerefore, we leave open options we wouldn't have if married or engaged. C) Get ajob and work your butt off. I know you will but it bears repeating.
Good Luck and don't take constructive criticism so harshly. We're on your side here!
