Big Gunns answer to a pm from JLC

[Big Gunns]

Eh. I've been to professionals. The last one tried to tell me that my issues were because "my family doesn't treat me like I'm an adult". It was in fact her that kept treating me like a child. I can function fine. I can act quite well. I'll survive. I always have.

Well it sure doesn't look like you're enjoying life all that much. Life is great, but it's what you make of it. If you sit around and mope....life sucks. You need to try and make the best of every day. BG needs to follow his own advice sometimes.

To just "survive" is no fun. Life really is great, but it is what you make it. It's really not that hard to make your life much better, but you have to be willing to try.

BG realizes he doesn't know all that's going on in your life, but obviously you're not too happy. Whether you think so or not though. The adults around you probably do know what's best....you just need to trust them. Like BG said though.....he doesn't know all the ins and outs of your life to say.

[wilomn]

BG realizes he doesn't know all that's going on in your life, but obviously you're not too happy. Whether you think so or not though. The adults around you probably do know what's best....you just need to trust them. Like BG said though.....he doesn't know all the ins and outs of your life to say.

Knowing NOTHING you give advice that may well be more than just slightly detrimental to someone you also know NOTHING about.

Did you ponder, even for a moment, that the adults in his life, which he has stated are prone to mental problems, may NOT have his best interests in mind?

Stick to what you know, whatever the heck it is, before you seriously hurt someone.

Not joking.

[Raptor]

Knowing NOTHING you give advice that may well be more than just slightly detrimental to someone you also know NOTHING about.

Did you ponder, even for a moment, that the adults in his life, which he has stated are prone to mental problems, may NOT have his best interests in mind?

Stick to what you know, whatever the heck it is, before you seriously hurt someone.

Not joking.

Willy Willy Willy, BG thinks we can all agree that the adults in his life "PROBABLY"(like BG said) do know what's best for him. Notice the word "probably" like BG stated. He said "plenty of mental illness in his family". He didn't say it was the adults. Then maybe you'll notice that BG said he doesn't "know all the ins and outs of his life to say". Keep trying Willy....you didn't get BG this time. BG is sorry that the adults around you growing up couldn't help you out....maybe you wouldn't have grown up to be such a sourpuss.

"Not joking" either.

ps. Didn't BG say something about professional help also? So Willy, are you just going to criticize BG for actually caring and trying to help, or can you add something constructive to this thread and maybe help him? BG is just asking. It's very easy to criticize someone when you're doing absolutely NOTHING Willy. That's OK....it's to be expected from you.

I'm a her, thanks..At least last I checked. Anyways, only one with mental illness in my immediate family is my dad and I don't live with him. I was saying that my family has a lot of mental illness in its history. Aunts, Uncles, Grandparents, etc.