Well, those of us who are women have the same problem. I've heard women say "He told me that if I wanted to get married the <dog> <snakes> <leos> <cats> had to go so I showed him the door." Or worse yet, I hear women say that they got rid of their beloved pets and 5 years later they are divorced.

I think the way to find a boyfriend or girlfriend who likes snakes is to hang out with snake people and sooner or later, hopefully, you'll meet someone you click with who ALREADY has herps. I know several couples who met exactly that way, at meetups organized by reptile forums.

Maybe this forum needs a singles meeting thread?