Are females more aggressive then males ??? I have a male pastel and he's a few months old and he's pretty shy and jumpy but he has never struck at us not even when he's around my loud and obnoxious kids. I just purchased a female last weekend shes about the same age maybe a little older and she seems aggressive, when I go to check her out she has struck her tank about ten times now . I held her twice but that was before she struck at me I'm a little scared to touch her now is this just the way females are ???![]()
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