Quote Originally Posted by mommanessy247 View Post
oo oo oo i got 2 for ya'll.
when i was 8 months pregnant with my daughter, ok im talkin' as big as a house! theres no way you cant tell i'm pregnant. ok so im sittin' out at a bus stop & a 50-ish looking' guy drove up, stopped, opened his passenger side door & stared lovingly at me & licked his lips for a good minute before asing me if i wanted a ride. talk about HOLY CRAP! i almost shot outta there like a bat outta hell.
wait can i say that here? sorry...
anyways, i swallowed the ball of terror in my throat, remained calm, shook my head & politely told him to keep on drivin'. he did.
THEN no more then a month goes by & im riding a bus home, still heavily pregnant with my daughter. i got off at my stop & some toothless old guy in his 60's, maybe 70's, gets off too. ok no big deal right?
im walkin' walkin' walkin', ignoring him.
then i realize he's actually following me.
now, i lived alone at that time & all kinds of horrifying visions of what's about to happen to me should i continue walking home with this guy tailing me pops into my head.
i was on the verge of tears. but again, i swallowed that ball of terror in my throat, closed my eyes for a second, took a deep breath, let it out slowly & turned around to face him.
i said " can i help you?"
he said " i wanna walk you home."
i said " well, im sorry, but today's not your lucky day, buddy. i dont need an escort home. thank you though."
i continued to walk away from him & he paused, then caught up to me saying
" but i wanna walk you home."
i said " look if my boyfriend sees you following me he might kill you, he's crazy like that. please stop following me." & i made a turn onto a residential street away from my apartment complex. he thought about what i said & then turned around and walked back the way we'd came, back to the bus stop we'd gotten off at.
when he was gone i let out a 1/2 sob, 1/2 sigh of relief & walked to my apartment, shaking violently. that was the last time i went anywhere alone.
i've been mistaken for a prostitute numerous times & i wasnt even wearing anything provocative! cops have even stopped me, asking what i was doin', where i was goin' & all that.
dang man!
i mean, am i really that attractive or somethin'?
i've actually seen some really nasty lookin' prostitutes, ok i'm talkin' you wont touch them with a 10 ft pole kinda nasty.
but yet here i am gettin picked on by cops & hit on & followed by raunchy old men.
what gives?!
Wow, that must suck. Plus its illegal for the Cops just to stop you for no reason like that you have to be doing something illegal.

Look up the 4th Amendment. If a Cop does that ever again and you did nothing illegal I would ask him why I was being stopped and if he says some thing that is not illegal just walk away, don't let them take advantage of you. =p