One insane friday night.

[shescountry89]

Dont worry about me, I worry about ya getting attacked by some wacko. The bigger they are the harder they fall

That's what a guy told me about my best friend, and then he tried to fight him and got himself laid out on the concrete

[twistedtails]

Yeah, there is a chance I could run into him agian. He lives around the bars I go to. I just hope that he is smart enough not to come around me agian after this weekend, but like you said.. some people are unstable. I'll do my best to be careful! I know a lot of people on here got my back, i love you guys!

I can gauranty you your brothers are scary to you, but, to a guy who has been in prison they are probably a joke. Not to mention, if you love your brothers why would you want to put them in harms way? I would do what was suggested by somebody else and call the police. If this guy is capable of turning on the police and beating his wife, what makes you the exception? Just saying...Chose your battles wisely. Hope it works out.

[shescountry89]

I can gauranty you your brothers are scary to you, but, to a guy who has been in prison they are probably a joke. Not to mention, if you love your brothers why would you want to put them in harms way? I would do what was suggested by somebody else and call the police. If this guy is capable of turning on the police and beating his wife, what makes you the exception? Just saying...Chose your battles wisely. Hope it works out.

No I know what you mean, I have told my brother in laws that if I was to run into him agian, and this situation occured I would be calling the police before anything. I wouldn't put them in harms way, but either way if I tell them something happened they always try to take matters into their own hands.

[mechnut450]

it simpleto remember 3 things I learned if they can't breath, see ,or walk you havea chance to get away(so striaght for the eyes,knees and throat for self defense), yelling will get you help (really fast if the bouncers know your voice and are on their job. I can also guantee that if a requested a dozen or more of us are capable of making the issue in hand vanish.

I may be no good in a fight but I got plenty of time to plan things as needed and know many persons that can lose cargo if needed lol..

[j_h_smith]

Be careful with all of this self help stuff. They used to teach a woman to take the palm of her hand and trust it into the nose of the assailant. Then they realized, that if it wasn't done properly, all you did was give the guy a bloody nose. Then they realized that when certain men see blood, they can go even more crazy.

You situation is a very serious situation and one that should not be taken lightly. Remember, the cops are there to take the report once the crime occurs. They are not there to prevent the crime. Unlike what some think, it is up to you to prevent someone from harming you.

I would not go anywhere by yourself. Having a guy tag along would be a good idea, but anyone is better than being alone. When walking to your car, have the keys in your hand, open the door, get in and lock the door as soon as you can. You can also use your keys as a weapon, Place the largest key between your middle and ring finger, while grasping the key ring in your closed fist. Stike using the key as a punch.

Please be careful!
Jim Smith

[twistedtails]

it simpleto remember 3 things I learned if they can't breath, see ,or walk you havea chance to get away(so striaght for the eyes,knees and throat for self defense), yelling will get you help (really fast if the bouncers know your voice and are on their job. I can also guantee that if a requested a dozen or more of us are capable of making the issue in hand vanish.

I may be no good in a fight but I got plenty of time to plan things as needed and know many persons that can lose cargo if needed lol..

Some people just have no common sense. You will be the first person the cops call if something happens...

[twistedtails]

Be careful with all of this self help stuff. They used to teach a woman to take the palm of her hand and trust it into the nose of the assailant. Then they realized, that if it wasn't done properly, all you did was give the guy a bloody nose. Then they realized that when certain men see blood, they can go even more crazy.

You situation is a very serious situation and one that should not be taken lightly. Remember, the cops are there to take the report once the crime occurs. They are not there to prevent the crime. Unlike what some think, it is up to you to prevent someone from harming you.

I would not go anywhere by yourself. Having a guy tag along would be a good idea, but anyone is better than being alone. When walking to your car, have the keys in your hand, open the door, get in and lock the door as soon as you can. You can also use your keys as a weapon, Place the largest key between your middle and ring finger, while grasping the key ring in your closed fist. Stike using the key as a punch.

Please be careful!
Jim Smith

You are right Jim. The cops are here to take reports after the crime takes place. But, in a case like this where the perp. is on parole he will be stopped as soon as his parole officer hears about the assult he already made on her. If you use the system the right way it can be used to stop crime before it happens at a degree that is out of control.

[shescountry89]

it simpleto remember 3 things I learned if they can't breath, see ,or walk you havea chance to get away(so striaght for the eyes,knees and throat for self defense), yelling will get you help (really fast if the bouncers know your voice and are on their job. I can also guantee that if a requested a dozen or more of us are capable of making the issue in hand vanish.

I may be no good in a fight but I got plenty of time to plan things as needed and know many persons that can lose cargo if needed lol..

Be careful with all of this self help stuff. They used to teach a woman to take the palm of her hand and trust it into the nose of the assailant. Then they realized, that if it wasn't done properly, all you did was give the guy a bloody nose. Then they realized that when certain men see blood, they can go even more crazy.

You situation is a very serious situation and one that should not be taken lightly. Remember, the cops are there to take the report once the crime occurs. They are not there to prevent the crime. Unlike what some think, it is up to you to prevent someone from harming you.

I would not go anywhere by yourself. Having a guy tag along would be a good idea, but anyone is better than being alone. When walking to your car, have the keys in your hand, open the door, get in and lock the door as soon as you can. You can also use your keys as a weapon, Place the largest key between your middle and ring finger, while grasping the key ring in your closed fist. Stike using the key as a punch.

Please be careful!
Jim Smith

I am aware about the key between the fingers technique, as punching someone correctly in the nose. This past weekend, on saterday when we went out we had one of the bouncers walk us out to the car after it closed. My best friend isn't 21 yet, so he can't come out with us. But I will make sure we start having a few more guys come out, it's normally just myself & my roomate.

I will be careful, and a lot more cautious. I guess I need to stop being so nice to people, apparently they mistake it for that i'm either interested or they are just the type of person to take a signal wrong. Then agian, in this situation I knew the guy already so that's different. But normally that is usually how I end up having someone following me around at the bar.

[mechnut450]

Some people just have no common sense. You will be the first person the cops call if something happens...

lol it simple I said i know people I don't know what happen to person they looking for. Plus being In de all the time gives me a perfect excuse.
plus whati said about not being able to see breath or walk is true ask any self defensse instructor ) I also noted I can't fight to save my own rear.

heck busting me in he knee might actually help me with my gimp lol

[shescountry89]

lol it simple I said i know people I don't know what happen to person they looking for. Plus being In de all the time gives me a perfect excuse.
plus whati said about not being able to see breath or walk is true ask any self defensse instructor ) I also noted I can't fight to save my own rear.

heck busting me in he knee might actually help me with my gimp lol

I got what you mean't, it is very true. Just sometimes everything happens so fast you don't have time to retaliate. You just have to try and be ready for anything pretty much.