Did'nt finish reading the thread sorry got angry and skipped to the last page to post. What a loser to prey on you like that. You dont have to like the same things as your partner but you have to except them. My wife hates that I hunt and race sprint cars but she has never has missed opening weekend or missed a race, becase thats what you do for the person you care about. She says thats why she loves me, because thats who I am. If you keep snakes he does not have to like them but, he should use that to spend more time with you. He sounds very selfish. He only wants you to do the things he wants to do. What a bum.