Ladies of Bp.Net, I need some help.

[Blightedchemist]

I don't mean to discredit any of the great advice anyone has shared with you. Though, in my opinion, the best guidence you can receive when it comes to relationships is to not take anyone's advice. None of us are qualified to give you advice. You can tell us what's going on between you and your boyfriend and that will give us a good view from the outside but relationships are more complicated then that. We can't know what your feelings for him are or his feelings for you. You are the only one that can properly weigh the pros and cons of your relationship taking all of your feelings into account.

We can't tell you wether you should or shouldn't leave him. The truth is - you already know the answer. The hard part is not deciding what you should do. The hard part is admitting to yourself what you have already decided.

Very true, we could be considered practically blind as to what is going on. All we can do is use our own experience from similar conditions and help our friend in a time of need, and ultimately it is up to Laura.

No. I can't agree with such a blanket statement. I know people who don't like or care for animals and are wonderful people. I also know people who like and [poorly] care for animals and are awful people.

Agreed Steffe, which is also why I felt I needed to add that in my experience, I couldn't however say every animal owner ever is an incredible person or otherwise.