Lol I just started handeling mine recently, and it's about the same size as yours. Just watch your snake, it's pretty obvious when they're pissed off or scared. I noticed with mine that petting it down it's back for a few moments calms it right up. Maybe you should try that first. When it's awake, just gently rub down it's back a bit, almost like a little massage. After you get comfortable doint that you can try to pick it up. That's just my advice, but I'm still new to this too so I may be completely wrong lol