Yes, I do keep them together. It is what works for me. Never had any problems, other than the unexpected pregnancy. They eat ok and are very healthy. If ever there were any problems I would have separated them immediately. Obviously, after discovering that they are of the opposite sex, I'm going to separate them. Definitely don't want the stress to them (especially her) of breeding continuously, (they are always at it). She's definitely a she. Definitely eggs forming in there. Thanks for all the feedback, but I'm pretty firm on letting her incubate them. I definitely understand all the controversy but this is how I want to do things.