well not talking to your GF for 4 weeks....that is pretty bad!! Just like the other person said...you have to have open communication. Sometimes that can be difficult. Im an Italian girl that can hold a grudge a LONG time. So it takes some doing on my part to break that!!!

With that in mind...you need to just have a very serious conversation and really be honest and open. The fact that she went and got another "guy"...should tell you something though. It is hard to recover from that one...but I have seen ppl do it. Just don't get into this type of relationship where you break up...get back together....break up..yada yada. And don't "glamourize" your relationship. What I mean is look back on all the good things and push aside the fact that maybe you are not right for each other.

The only other thing I can tell you is take a look at your past relationships...were they like this?? We tend to subconsiously (I know I spelled that one wrong) pick the same type of individuals and make the same type of relationship mistakes....I call it a broken picker!! Hard to fix that until you take a good look at it.