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    Re: Life can be such a downer :/

    Also, and I am not defending him here, but find out what your dad thinks and why he's doing what he's doing before you condemn him for it. Maybe he and your mother know it's over but haven't told you yet. Maybe he's just confused. Maybe he's just not loyal. Without an actual honest conversation, you'll never know.
    I know, I don't mean to condemn him, I'm just terribly frustrated. We used to be able to talk about anything, perfect communication and now it is just silence. Deep down I truly believe he is confused, he says one thing, then changes his mind all the time. I believe he still loves my mom too. However, at this point, I think it is over. He has given my mom the "o.k" to see other men...Today he told her that he is interested in someone else. Now I'm stuck trying to be the voice of wisdom and remind her that revenge makes no one happy in the end. I'm trying to convince her to do what makes her happy, not what hurts those who have hurt her.

    And yes, I have 2 close friends I'm able to confide in and that helps a lot

    Thanks guys for your support! It is making me feel a lot better
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