I messed up big time :( (advice appreciated...)

[pavlovk1025]

What exactly did u mess up? Seems to me that your ex messed this up. You should probably cut communication completly with that knucklehead and quit letting her dictate your life..... She is not with you anymore man, I wouldnt even put up with that garbage if she still was.


It seems like you are just lusting after this other chick pretty hard, Id leave her alone just because she is connected with the ex...... Plenty of other females out there just as good as that one. Do what you do though.

Im down with the plent fish in the sea advice, but Ive seen some strong relationships come out of the ex's friend scenario. The only thing he's got to consider is the chance of this newfound romance being more of a "filling the gap" type of ordeal or a genuine thing. Rebounds suck times two cause they leave you hurting from a second ordeal without healing from the first.
Spoken like a true chick, I must be channeling my wife right now.